Thursday, 20 July 2023

Stop complaining start doing

 Don't waste even a second of your time on earth complaining...


We find it easy to complain about almost anything — traffic, slow Wi-Fi, bad customer service, the weather, or even life itself. Whenever we find ourselves facing life's challenges, we simply resort to complaining.


One truth the vast majority of us find difficult to embrace is that complaint never changes the situation. Sure, it feels good and momentarily liberating to be able to blow off steam and vent our anger, but we only end up wasting our time and making everything worse. That's why complaining seems so comforting — it lets you describe situations as negatively as you can without any solid plan to take responsibility and try to solve the problem.

There is nothing to gain from your worries. Whenever you’re facing a challenge, ask yourself: “Can I do anything about this?” If yes, great! So why complain? 

Get to work and start doing all you can to turn things around. If no, why waste your time complaining when you know it won’t make any difference?


It's either you can deal with the challenges that come your way or you can't. If you can, then start doing something and stop making things worse by complaining.

Everything that happens is either endurable or not. If it’s endurable, then endure it. Stop complaining. If it’s unendurable . . . then stop complaining. 

Your destruction will mean its end as well. Remember, you can endure whatever your mind can make endurable, by treating it as in your interest to do so. In your interest, or in your nature.

Life is too short to waste the quality part of your time complaining. Start acting instead of brooding and assigning blames.

Focus on the things you can influence and stop worrying about the things that are outside your circle of control.